Thursday, 20 September 2012

What a day it was....

Yesterday was one of those days.... Started off my day with my iPhone being halfway done upgreded to IOS6, it couldn't be used until it is done.  Can't wait till it is done cause I have a meeting to attend at 9pm.

Then, got scolded for not following instructions which was my fault, no doubt.  Sometimes being proactive may not be the right thing to do....

Got in the office early as planned.  Went straight to the meeting room, setup my laptop and waited.  Just after a few minutes opening my mails, I received a mail informing that the meeting has been postponed till 10am.  Hmmmm never mind, just sit in the meeting room and cleared my mails.

Meeting was like a meeting lah! It was my first time attending it.  Nothing to shout about but interesting experience.  Meeting ended about 1:30pm.

Straight after that meeting, continued with a discussion which ended about 3pm.  Only at 3:30pm I managed to grab my lunch!  At 5pm we had our townhall meeting.  I could wait for snack time as I had to leave to pick up my son from school.

On top of that, received some news from Roohii.  News that also give us frustration.  But somehow we managed to find a solution to the slight hiccup and we were back on our feet.

It was really a tough day for me.  The though part was actually being caught by surprises a few times. I don't like being lied to and I don't like being cheated.  I am a transparent person.  Be frank with me.

Anyway, got home, bought Nasi Kukus, had dinner with Roohii, did a few chores which cleared my mind and I was much better....

~dissapointed Xena~
21st September 2012

Saturday, 15 September 2012

It's ok, you'll be fine...

I am so used to being left out... Since that day till now... The price for being seen as having more and more successful than them...

Being married to the youngest sibling in the family, I always thought the youngest always have the previlage. Now I know it is not always the case. Manja yes but other than that, nope! I suppose I should have seen it because I am the eldest in my family. What I say always counts, hahaha...

In a way, I thank Allah for what he has planned for. At least I get to feel how my other sibling feels and I try not to do the same. Life is a learning curve, for those who pick it up la kan... Some people tak amik kisah pun, still buat cam gitu gak... Jenis stone face...

Since dah kena banyak kali, I really have to learn my lesson and never expect more from them. The thing is that if I were the one who did like what they did, I am for sure to be critised. But when they did it, it is ok. Well, life is never fair kan?

But it is ok Xena, it's not like you can't go by yourself right? Sampai ke London pegi sendiri with no problem isn't it?

Don't you worry honey... Don't let this pull your spirits down... Your happiness in life does not depend on them... It's in my hands!!

~highly spirited Xena~
Malaysia Day 2012

Thursday, 6 September 2012

Aisyeh, more not-so-nice news...

Today I got to know another friend of mine having a second family. It's really sad cause this guy married his school sweetheart. Bercinta bagai nak rak from secondary school, then A-Levels, then overseas... Kira macam romeo and juliet lah! Tup, tup kahwin lagi satu gak. Sayang sungguh pada wifenya ya sampai sanggup menduakan isterinya...

Tapi bila dianalise situationnya, his second wife is a staff nurse kat hospital he is working. Agaknya tengok hari-hari malah waktu dgn staff nurse tu adalah lebih daripada time dengan wifenya. So cinta berputik dan dari buat maksiat baik kahwin iya dak? Hmmmm whatever *with head roll and hand gesture*!

So conclusion di sini, to keep the love flaming at all times, nak kena spend more time with your partner. Sebab banyak sangat kes second wife seorang pilot is a stewardess, second wife a doctor is a nurse, second wife a big boss is the secretary. Kebanyakan kes la kan... Tapi Xena juga realise bila dah berkahwin lama (more than 10 year) husband and wife jarang nak spend time together. Tak tau le sebab dah jemu ke, atau dah naik menyampah. Atau isteri terlampau sibuk dgn urusan anak-anak dan kerja rumah, suami pulak sibuk bekerja mencari duit untuk keluarga. For Xena, I always believe spending quality time with your spouse macam time bercinta dulu amat penting. Sayangnya culture kita idak gitu... Bila nampak suami isteri yg middle age dok bermesra-mesraan atau bermanja-manjaan, orang naik meluat. Buang tebiat katanya. Get a room katanya. Pelik sungguh... Xena seronok tengok orang mabuk bercinta, nak-nak yg da bertahun-tahun berkahwin...

Oh well, itu la lumrah kehidupan kita di sini, Malaysia negaraku tercinta... (since still merdeka month, be a bit patriotic la ya!).

~accepted Xena~
5 September 2012